about my last post

In my last post I made some comments I think some of you might misunderstand. Primarily concerning the sexuality of the ass hole my wife had the affair with. I just wanted to make it clear the way I feel about him is because he selfishly put his feelings ahead of others when it came to starting an affair with my wife. Yes he is a homosexual male and the last I heard he was living happily ever after with another man named Jack. Too bad he had to destroy some one else's marriage to come to grips with that. Was he the sole cause of the destruction of my marriage? The answer would be no, my ex shares half of the blame with him because she made a conscious decision to join him in there encounters. Rather than come to me she chose to go to him to talk to him about the things that bothered her. I would have done my best to talk about the things she was concerned with and be supportive in the things she wanted to change. When it come to some ones sexual preference I don't care what it is. What ever makes you happy is ok with me. I just think it should be between consenting adults. If your in a relationship you have to keep in mind that what ever your doing and who your doing it with can have potential to cause some one else serious pain if your doing it behind your significant others back. No matter what your sexual preference is cheating is wrong on so many levels and that is what he and my ex did to me and my kids.

I also made some comments about my ex wife's weight. I am going to come out and say I prefer plus size women. That being said a persons health should come first and you should not let your self get to freakish proportions that will lead to health problems. Our society is sending us a dual message in the media they tout the so called lean healthy look while we get deluged with advertisements for all kinds of junk food and restaurants that serve enough in one serving to feed a small family in the third world for one meal. I think because food is so abundant and so cheap in our country we have turned it in to a source of recreation, which I think is wrong. I really think we as a society need to rethink how we view food in this country.

With that being said about food I think we should take a look at what we perceive as the ideal for beauty in woman and men. Right now the ideal is so totally unrealistic and out of touch with reality you would think some of the characters sprang from a comic book page. Movies and TV shows coming out of Hollywood are replete with actors and actresses with less than 10% body fat. The reality is the only way a person can achieve that conditioning is through strict limited diet and spending multiple hours a day in a gym doing strenuous work out. Try doing that keep and full time job. Just for every ones information my current stats are, I am currently 6'2" 243lb 38' waist 48" chest with 16% body fat. I do monitor my diet and exercise twice a week at a gym. Like I said before I am 52 years old and at that age a person has to speceal considerations concerning their health.